I am suppose to have my break from working but yet I had such a long day today. My morning was great in the hotel room, having extra time to sleep without my daughter bragging for attention like usual - even I kinda miss her now. The morning breakfast was hell, with uninteresting food served and annoying mat salleh whom talking about the problem about the religions in Malaysia - or shall I simplify it to problems of Islam? They were discussing about how Muslim would devote themselves to the religion and the problems that occurs by the worship. This mat salleh woman, whom quite vocal and insensitive of her surroundings (I am wearing scaft who obviously a Muslin and I think a Pakistan man were just sitting side by side trying very hard to enjoy the foods served, and try to have a decent morning!!!). According to her arguments, Islam breeds individual that perceive the women as minority and abusing women in the family is definitely a normal scenario. Qouting her giving an example on the Moroccans that migrates to her home country, domestic violence seems a must in their households. The rest of her arguments, I can't remember. I am totally disagree and disguise with most of her stupid points.
First, how could you generalize Muslim devoter as such! I believe she does not understand well on the demarcation line of a culture and religion. Many would do the same mistakes, but throwing assumption like that could create war. I were this near to ask for change of table. I rethink very hard, should I face her by arguing her wrong interpretations, or shall I leave the subject - silent doesn't mean I am loosing anything. I chose the second simply because it was a public place, and she was leaving her table. Arguing is meaningless if the other party is not willing to listen, or be defensive - it will not generate any healthy knowledge or understanding later. It's a waste of time, energy and maybe some unsatisfaction.
My mission for today was to submit or research to RMI in Shah Alam. I am totally lost when I discovered a lot of the roads were close due to the convocation. After asking a guard for the directions, I approached the roads she had told me but did not realized there is small junction in between. while I were busy looking for the roads I should take, there went a big bang tebabooo noise- my car hit another car, a Viva. Because of that, RM600 flown to an old Chinese so call expert car painter and tukang ketuk. To justify my lost today, I am reasoning myself that this perhaps purifying my undeserved earnings - mana yang ponteng2 tu, manalah tau. Anyway, I am grateful Damia wasn't there with me, and my prego tummy was fine and am not in shock situation. And thanks friends whom had call to check on me. Another concern after the hit was the students - since she is in the examination week, and afraid this would disturb her so much in her finals. And she identified me as the lecturer there - alahai terkantoi sebab ada staff sticker. However, it had been settled smoothly. I am responsible anyway.
Hubby was very supportive. Despite of getting mad with me, he acted cool and showing his concern on me over the car. You know how man could be in love with the car over the wife, kan? After all, the car only had scratches and looses its pearl white paint that could be repainted. No dented wall and lampu tak pecah. Nothing much on the car conversations, he soon brought me to Sg Wang and Low Yatt to survey his future phone and we had our dinner there. All he did was not letting my hand go all the way and back, as though guarded me like something bad would happen to me... this is what we always do pun, but this time, I felt it's more intimate and warmth.
I think my day ends fine, even though it's pretty long and tiring, and expensive. :) most importantly, I am fine, and the baby - thinks he/she fine too. Damia had her 1st Barbie and the hair gets hairwired the moment she combed her. I think I need to sew Barbie's panty - she ain't got one even with her super short skirt. Indirectly to educate Damia basic dressing code.
Tomorrow, gynea's appointment. Hope the Dr. is great as been described and willing to compromise with me being residing in Kedah but decided to give my birth here. Amin, amin, amin, harap semuanya keberkatanMu...
